I’m a very lucky girl. There, said it. Compared to a number of the lovely people I know I have it very easy when it comes to the old frock-urges. Now my other half knows, albeit reluctantly and because she doesn’t know what private mail means, I no longer have to do the serious amount… Continue reading [Fashion] Covert Femininity, a Field Guide…

Every drama queen loves a little drama, and while I am a stoic individual who deals with my depression and lust/love for being a femm by not talking about it…… nah, can’t even finish that sentence without being embarrassed. See, this generation is blessed and cursed in being able to purge their emotions, unchecked, into… Continue reading [Philosophy] Full-Circle-Skirting around the issues….

It’s Black-Dog ™ season again, but this time it’s been a bit harder than normal. Too many things converging at once, too many sleepless nights (insomnia, cha-cha-cha), too much dipping into the drinkies to make it seem a little less ‘meh’. So this post will ring true with a lot of us less confident ladies,… Continue reading [Philosophy] A purge, a rant and a Sarahphinay of sorts….