Let’s talk about the elephant in the room. You know, the one sat over in the far corner, winking, waving the packet of condoms and licking his lips. Yeah, that one. I’m going to come at this blogpost, if you’ll pardon the expression, from two angles – the first is as a dispassionate observer of… Continue reading So, just how unhealthy is self-abuse?

Maybe it’s just because I’m tired at the moment, and seemed to have been exhausted for a long time, but it struck me, as I fired up Sarah’s laptop and went through her checklist – read her emails, check her Flickr responses and upload a couple of new poses, update her Facebook page, pop onto… Continue reading Kinda Serious -I’ve forgotten how to have fun….

I’m climbing the walls. Not literally, of course, but figuratively. And within my head Sarah is having a tantrum, throwing her shoes against the wall of the girlie flat inside my psyche where she lives when I’m ‘doing the drab’. I’ve got three weeks before I feel the blessed relief of a corset, if you… Continue reading A Tale of Two Pronouns and the S word

My name is Sarah and I am a lipstickoholic. It’s been just under one calendar month since I felt that lovely, delicious feeling of wet perfectness on my lips. And hellfire, I miss it. Anyway, after that little spasm into almost-fetishism, I thought I’d have a nice pause this time and sit back and try… Continue reading Those little moments of indescribable joy

This blog post is a little tongue in cheek, so please don’t get offended if I repeatedly state a sightly rude reflection on my pictures. You have been warned 🙂 Alison Dale is somewhat of a legend to me. For a start, she is a really sweet person, a little rude in a wonderfully naughty… Continue reading Why I love (2) – Becoming one’s own object of desire

It occurs to me that my blog has, err, taking somewhat of an ’emo’ turn lately, mostly due to massive influxes of adrenaline and fear (going out) and, to be honest, kinda over-doing the fun-time a bit. So, let’s lighten it up a little. This entry will be the first of a number of entries… Continue reading Why I love…..