So, some news, some good, some bad. After a very long period of avoiding medication I’m on anti-depressants; going to be honest, my mood has been terrible the last six months for various reasons (looking at you Putin, amongst many others) and I’d reached a point where none of my coping mechanisms were helping (alcohol… Continue reading [Fashion] HouseWifeLife through the Eras

The Funny Thing About Depression Is…. Literally nothing. Depression is an insidious beast that creeps up on you, quietly at first, and when it comes to roost (I used to playfully call it the Black Dog but there’s nothing playful about it) you find yourself suddenly incapable of doing anything constructive. It has taken way… Continue reading [Chat] Sin-sation Seeking Again

So, I’ve had a craptastic couple of weeks. Sure, the world is bloody awful, everything is getting so expensive and we’re one megolomaniac’s bad day away from living the Mad Max dream, but that wasn’t it. I have been at the company I work for for ten years, I love it to bits. It’s not… Continue reading [Fashion] An Accidental Damsel in De-Stress

The Runner So, I feel I may have to explain that title for those people not born in the 1960s/1970s in the UK. It was the title of a book (and an Iron Maiden song based on the book because, err, Steve Harris comes up with ideas by looking at his bookcase) which was a… Continue reading [Chat] The Loneliness of the Long Distance Tranny

So, my previous post was a little, well, justifiably unhappy. It’s Winter, society is outwardly embracing gender fluidity whilst quietly hostility is prevalent everywhere against the trans community. Putin is still chucking missiles and troops at Ukraine and Ukraine is still fighting back. Costs of everything are up, everyone is striking, the world seems, well,… Continue reading [Chat] And Breathe. Through your nose…..

It’s been a while since I blogged and for that I profusely apologise; this year hasn’t been a barrel of laughs to be honest and it’s one of those times when everything seems just a little too bit on the dark side of the spectrum. So this will be a bit of a muted post,… Continue reading [Philosophy] The Art of the Sigh

Hate to show my age (it’s 54 in a couple of months, I feel menopausal) but as you get older the ‘things were better when I were a lad/lass’ really starts to creep in big time. What people don’t realise is that it is your mind playing tricks; well, not playing tricks as such, your… Continue reading [Chat] Chasing the SADness away with frockage

It’s been a while since I wrote a blog; during the pause I’ve had two sessions, both a lot of fun, taken a new job (which to be honest has been the thing keeping me off of Social Media for a little bit; ten years in the same role and I needed, badly, a new… Continue reading [Chat] That was the year that was(n’t?)

It’s Halloween and for the last couple of years, at least, I’ve managed, not by design at all, to end up having a session at Cindy’s on this very day. In fact last year, if I remember correctly, I actually went to Torture Garden dressed as Black Widow from the Marvel Universe. This year, not… Continue reading [Chat] Costuming inside my head….

So, Sarah is pretty much offline at the moment due to a very, very annoying health thingy. Post the food poisoning (and I’m starting to suspect a bit of Long Covid as well) I developed a Sty on my lower eyelid, right eye. For those who have read this blog in the past you now… Continue reading [Chat] I hateus hiatus