So, my previous post was a little, well, justifiably unhappy. It’s Winter, society is outwardly embracing gender fluidity whilst quietly hostility is prevalent everywhere against the trans community. Putin is still chucking missiles and troops at Ukraine and Ukraine is still fighting back. Costs of everything are up, everyone is striking, the world seems, well,… Continue reading [Chat] And Breathe. Through your nose…..

It’s been a while since I blogged and for that I profusely apologise; this year hasn’t been a barrel of laughs to be honest and it’s one of those times when everything seems just a little too bit on the dark side of the spectrum. So this will be a bit of a muted post,… Continue reading [Philosophy] The Art of the Sigh

Hate to show my age (it’s 54 in a couple of months, I feel menopausal) but as you get older the ‘things were better when I were a lad/lass’ really starts to creep in big time. What people don’t realise is that it is your mind playing tricks; well, not playing tricks as such, your… Continue reading [Chat] Chasing the SADness away with frockage

It’s been a while since I wrote a blog; during the pause I’ve had two sessions, both a lot of fun, taken a new job (which to be honest has been the thing keeping me off of Social Media for a little bit; ten years in the same role and I needed, badly, a new… Continue reading [Chat] That was the year that was(n’t?)

It’s Halloween and for the last couple of years, at least, I’ve managed, not by design at all, to end up having a session at Cindy’s on this very day. In fact last year, if I remember correctly, I actually went to Torture Garden dressed as Black Widow from the Marvel Universe. This year, not… Continue reading [Chat] Costuming inside my head….

So, Sarah is pretty much offline at the moment due to a very, very annoying health thingy. Post the food poisoning (and I’m starting to suspect a bit of Long Covid as well) I developed a Sty on my lower eyelid, right eye. For those who have read this blog in the past you now… Continue reading [Chat] I hateus hiatus

Going to stick with this format of posts for a bit; I like the ability to just vent on loads of things without having to write a novel on a single subject. And at the moment, I’m in the mood for venting. So, bear with me dear reader, and I’ll explain why I feel the… Continue reading [Chat] New words – tranxiety and trannoyance

Ooo, I’m going to gush a lot in this post. I’m not an ‘outside girl’, I get easily terrified if I’m away from the safety of male clothes, even though I bemoan them all the time and secretly, or not so secretly, yearn for the chance to be out and about in, gasp, the real… Continue reading [Fashion] Good Lord, Goodwood….

I like this format of randomness; it matches my brain at the moment, which is all over the place to be honest. Too hot a Summer, too scary a world-view, too infuriating a political landscape, not enough Sarah time, it all adds up. But to be honest I’m sat on a constant stream of worry… Continue reading [Chat] Miss Gender on tour, 2022

Extra Sarah points if you get that reference by the way…. Just over a month since the last post, and the main reason for not getting on here and spouting my usual level of femm-inspired randomness was the heat. Wow. Unlike the majority of people reading this I was alive during 1976 and all I… Continue reading [Chat] There is no ‘why’, only Zuul…